Wow,
@ptorrone you really should have made your final post linking to adafruit forums before its too late, but I doubt you'll want anyone you convinced to be on your side to read any of this.
After reading this whole thread (I only learned about two hours ago, this drama was linked on a theregister.co.uk forum) I am not surprised you failed to take the very loud hints right up to the last minute. If you had stopped early (after your second post perhaps), I would have assumed I did not know the whole picture. But your behavior makes it seem highly likely that SparkFun had to stop working with you, because of you. You clearly, very clearly, only came here to attempt to rally people to your side and use that to pressure others. Most of your posts were cringey, especially after you made completely unsupportable claims and then issued non-mea culpas. Yikes. I've had two kids, and two weeks in, yeah, the sleep deprivation and anxiety and general chaos are sanity-testing. A month in is generally not anywhere nearly so much, yeah, everyone's different, every kid is different, but taken in light of all the other "I'm a victim here and here and here" stuff, I just assume its another manipulative attempt to get just one iota of support. Its not coming and you are actively cementing a strongly bad negative image for adafruit. You have very little time to issue a _real_ mea culpa, get off your high horse and move on.
I'd always liked Adafruit and I love what Limor has done. But you sound like a nightmare to deal with, and really, members post pics of their projects here, not their family (exceptions for pets).