yes.Paul has already given you a bunch of suggestions all through this thread.
Paul suggested a resistor and diode system that addresses the more expensive problem of killing Teensy boards which i thoroughly explored multiple ideas including the Shottky diode design i found when AI referenced it that i thought might do better with a hybrid solution. i'm grateful for that new knowledge.
i then looked at the thought in conjunction with the flickering and concern that my 12V nominal system (which is actually 12.5V to 15V) would require regulation (thus the MOSFET circuit) and i started asking new questions to add to my already overwhelming number of questions which i asked for help to answer.
so now i found another idea that will do the same thing with a lot less time and cost invested in experimentation that i don't have the resources for that should die immediately if 12V+ is sent through it.
feel free to augment my already lacking knowledge on this subject.
if there is a better chip to use, let me know, but i've moved on with these thoughts because i believe that the level shifter is a more holistic approach.